Caring Communities |
Winter 2004 |
Someone once pointed out that the phrase "one another" appears at least fifty times in the New Testament. Praying for one another, listening to one another, loving one another, bearing one another's burdens are all solid biblical concepts reminding us to be in close weekly contact with other Christians in parish home fellowship groups.
Small parish home groups meeting during the week help to offset that sense of isolation many people feel today in our so-called post-modern society. As Michael Green states in his thought provoking book "After Alpha", the small parish group is a place "where it is OK for anyone to come in and say I am feeling lousy & depressed tonight and be lovingly ministered to by the group" (I). In short, a parish home group is really a gathering of parishioners meeting in parish homes on a regular basis under trained and pastorally supported leadership for study, sharing, ministry, and outreach. Simply, God's people bonding together in Christian love and ministry.
Life in the early church really sets the stage for home group ministry.
Listen closely to what life was once like in the body of Christ-" They met constantly to hear the apostles teach, and to share the common life, to break bread and to pray." (Acts 2:42)
If we are to experience today such small group ministry where people become more than simply names or faces we need to see that our spiritual journey can never be a private affair. My dream with respect to parish renewal is that small house groups will be a top priority on the local parish visionary agenda.
Holy Trinity, Calgary is on track in the development of small group ministry. They pass out to visitors and parishioners a very attractive pamphlet entitled "Small Groups"--"Growing in Christ through Caring Community" with a list of church home groups or a place to sign up if the existing groups don't fit into your schedule. Parish handouts list four basic ingredients of small group fellowship:
My travel across Canada has revealed to me that churches growing both numerically and spiritually, place small group ministry very high on their planning agenda. Needless to say, the leaders of small parish home groups need supervision, pastoral oversight, encouragement, and coaching. One of my favourite resources dealing with effective small group leadership is--"How to Lead a Great Cell Group Meeting---so People want To Come Back.(2)
The growing churches of our day are discovering the joy of living no longer for themselves but for the common good of other brothers and sisters in Christ. Now is the time to get together with others in parish homes during the week in a participatory Spirit-filled atmosphere for prayer, fellowship, study, ministry, outreach and of course, refreshments. As I have personally found out small group ministry can be truly life-changing!
(1) Michael Green, "After Alpha", (Kingsway Publications, Eastbourne, England,2001), p. 112
(2) Joel Comiskey, "How to Lead a GREAT Cell Group Meeting.....So People Want To Come Back",
(Touch Publications, Houston, Texas, U.S.A.)
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